Discussing: Dynamics of the Non-Custodial Mother

Quiet, cool headed, collected in my thoughts is about how I’m feeling.  At a time of being still, steadfast in my steps -has inspired feelings of confidence and a brevity occurring on high.  Empowered am I, from your many positive exchanges and inspirations that have come my way from these beautiful women who know first hand the feelings of loss when your child has been taken away from you.  We are now known in society as the Non-Custodial Mothers, a unique term for our segment of society born at the hands of our Family Courts.  All across the country this is a commonly shared experience for the women in our shoes.  The most profoundly amazing quality, is that these are the most humane, compassionate, insightful women that have been horribly abused in the Family Courts across the nation.  One county tends to differ little from many other counties when it comes to this experience we share as Non-Custodial Mothers.ns

In service to the brave women who stand with me and beside me, our experiences and our dynamics are not being discussed anywhere in our society.  There is not scholarly studies that give statistical or factual information of our experiences in as much that our experience touches upon every walk of life it is such irony, the fact that our growing numbers are not discussed.  However,  have no fear where our experiences are not being discussed, and incorporated into every fabric of our society; we will begin to empower our numbers and our experiences by documenting our recorded facts for our children and for our society at large, that is only too willing to forget that we exist.  We are citizens, stripped of inalienable rights.  By documenting our experience well will begin to do as no other citizen in our society.  We will perfect our Rights by exercising them in the best ways that we can.

This is a simmering concept at work and in its developmental stages.  Excitedly, I am inviting dialogue to occur on the dynamics of our experiences and I am extending this invitation for all whom look forward to discussions in the area of the Non-Custodial Mothers in the United States.  Please join in on this conversation and share your concerns, your visions, your experiences as well as how these concerns can be moved into the broader areas of our society.  I welcome all into this forum: